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2013


Had it just felt like it is still 2012?
How did 2012 passed by so quickly? 
It is already the 3rd week of 2013! 
Age seems to be catching up on me :(
Every year since 2011 I've been making resolutions so that I can improve and of course motivate myself to be better each year :)
Crap. I think I didn't managed to achieve much of my 2012 resolutions. 

1. Don't give up chasing dreams. And I did! :) I stepped out of my comfort zone and took up a brand new job challenge. Not really my dream but it is a start of something new and perhaps a step closer to my dream :)
2. Save money. On-going haha. And yes I did bought something I've been eye-ing on for years. Finally save enough to buy it! Very proud of myself eventhough a lot of people said it is ugly. Oh well. Haters gonna hate right? 
3. To be healthy and have tone body. Maybe not that tone yet but yes I increase my amount of time in the gym. Love the adrenaline rush of exercising. :)
4. Control my temper. And indeed I did! :) Maybe a little too control that I'm being taken advantage of at times man. Crap. Sighs.
5. Be more spontaneous. Does planning for a trip to Legoland, JB a week before we were supposed to depart spontaneous enough? Not forgetting that it was only Nik & I that went all the way to JB. Guess that was our little adventure! :D 
6. Learn how to bake. Yes I did too. I took up baking lesson to achieve some not so hard baking things. *proud* 
7. Do something unordinary. Hmm I think I didn't managed to achieve this. This year I am going to take this out. Because I don't even know what is unordinary :(
8. Take up a language course. Didnt managed to achieve this :( This year I will. Maybe Mandarin lesson? 


So what is my 2013 resolutions?


1. Traveling. 


Always will be my dream to just take a break from work once in awhile and escape KL. 
Doesn't have to be really far. Somewhere near will do as long as I had the best companion :)

2. Forgive but don't forget. 


I need to forget what other people did. Because forgiveness is something that every individual should do for themselves. Not for others. :) But never forget. Remembering taught you life lessons :)

3. Always have dreams.


Dreams. Everyone should have it. Without dreams you are just a hopeless mankind. So always have dreams be it big or small. Dreams are a way of telling yourself you can do it! :)



4. Be selective.


I must practice this everyday, every second from now on wards.  Sometimes being TOO nice leads to disaster. I got to learn that I can't be there for every single person. 


5. Learn to love and not afraid to be loved.


I always afraid to be loved. Everytime a person gets too close to me I will do something stupid that spoils everything. So this year I vow to not be afraid to be love. :) 


Have a great 2013 everyone! :)

3 Magic Words

It's already the second week of 2013! 
How time flies! 
I've been sick since a few days before the end of 2012. 
And now my sick just got worse. 
High fever, flu, sore throat, cough and swollen eyes.
2013 didn't start off quite good for me :(

Saw this post at Jane Chuckei's blog.

Find the first 3 magic words. 
And practice it for the whole 2013 :)



Mine is:

Love, Beauty, Humour

So what is your magic words? :)


Quote





Agreed! 
Word for thought!

15 Things You Should Give Up!

Read an article earlier on how to be a happier person by just giving up 15 simple things.
15 might seems a lot but in reality, it is somewhat what we do everyday in our daily lives.

"We hold on to so many things that cause us a great deal of pain, stress and suffering - and instead of letting them all go, instead of allowing ourselves to be stress free and happy - we cling on them"


1. Give up your need to always be right.
Being right all the time doesn't seems to be that important you know. Yes, at times our ego comes along and tells us, "GOD DAMMIT. YOU ARE RIGHT! WHY ARE YOU LOWERING YOUR ESTEEM". And honestly, how many times this needs to be right cause us stress and sometimes even strained friendships and relationships. Lower that dam ego NOW!

2. Give up your need for control.
Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel. In other words, "STOP BEING A CONTROL FREAK"

3. Give up on blame.
Give up on your needs to blame others for what you have or don't have, for what you feel or don;t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk.
Oh my! How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don't believe everything that your mind is telling you - especially if it's negative and self-defeating. You are better than that!

5. Give up your limiting beliefs.
about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!
"a belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind" Elly Roselle

6. Give up complaining.
Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, mannnny things - people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It is not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

7. Give up the luxury of criticism.
Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you;. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. WE all want something and something is wished by us all.

8. Give up your need to impress others.
Stop trying so hard to be something that you're not just to make others like you. It doesn't work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something you're not, the moment you take of all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

9. Give up your resistance to change.
Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change - don't resist it.
"follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls" Joseph Campbell.


10. Give up labels.
Stop labeling those things, people, or events that you don't understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. "The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about" Wayne Dyer


11. Give up on your fears.
Fear is just an illusion, it doesn't exist - you created it. It's all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.
"the only thing we have to fear is fear itself" Franklin D. Roosevelt


12. Give up your excuses.
Send them packing and tell them they're fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses - excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

13. Give up past.
It's hard. yes, we all been there done that! Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening but you have to take control and consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and you will ever have. The past you are now longing for - the past that you are now dreaming about - was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself but always be present in the now.

14. Give up attachment.
This is a concept that for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too but it's not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things you become so peaceful, tolerant, kind and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state of beyond words.

15. Give up living your life to other people's expectations.
Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is the best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, enemies and teachers etc best for them. Stop pleasing other people! You have one life - this one right now - you must live it, own it and especially don't let other people's opinions distract you from your path.


Source: Purpose Fairy

What is your 2012 resolutions?


Another year has passed again! :)
Let's reflect back 2011 resolutions! And make new ones!

2011 resolutions:
#1: Be more active ..    I joined the gym for yoga and personal trainer and dance classes! and also reunite with plenty of friends. Less anti-social :D
#2 Dont give up chasing dream. *still trying to achieve that* :(
#3 Live a healthier life   And yes i did! no much on junk foods and much more healthy diet! :)
#4 Save money My 2011 resolution for this was to get a camera and I did even though not with my own money lah :) Special thanks! :)
#5 Lose weight  I did!! dam happy! i is 46 kg now! :)  3 more kgs to go! :)
#6 Traveling *really wanna go Japan ,Korea and Taiwan*
#7 Cut down on caffeine  I did this too! only one cup per day! and on occasion days where im super sleepy!
#8 Learn how to bake more *Making more bake dates with nik and karen.*
#9 Take up course * still deciding on what course to take* :)



Achieved 5 out of 9 resolutions for 2011.
Not too bad! :)
So what's my 2012 resolutions this year! Hmmm.
Been thinking really hard for my 2012 resolutions... and finally some came into my mind.
Time to list it down and lets say i how many I can achieve for 2012 when it is the year 2013. 




2012 resolutions:


1. Don't give up chasing dreams. Continue on for this as I missed out on this in 2011. Hopefully I will achieve this before 2012 ends. Always have that coward side of me whenever it comes to this! Missed out two opportunities in the year 2011. Cross fingers to give myself more courage to achieve this! :)






2. Continue to save money. Yup need it to get more properties and investments to double up my incomes! :) $$$ comes to me! :) And of course some other designer stuffs ;) Working in Malaysia sometimes is shitty! Low income, long working hours! But oh well, if you have the determination to do it, you can :)






3. Travelling. I is going Taiwan mid year and BKK end of the year! :) So happy! Finally get to visit Hello Kitty cafe! :) People that been to Taiwan please suggest places to eat/see/shop! Thank you! :)
*oh and please suggest where I can get pink luggage like the pictures below* :D








4. Learn how to bake. Yup! Now I make a once a month date with Nik and Karen for our baking session! :) Nik's mum is an awesome baker! So gonan steal some tips and tricks from her! :) Don't you all know the way to a guy's stomach is through his heart *wink* haha. And I really wana make cupcakes bouquet! :)




Cute isnt it? :)


5. Take up language course. Planning to head to Beijing for Chinese course :) or maybe just take up a brand new language :) Time to brush up my knowledge :) And not just the basic English and not so good Cantonese and a little rusty Bahasa Melayu :p








6. Continue to be healthy and toned up my body! Sexy body comes to me soon! :) I see so many hot mamas around lately that it puts me to shame! I is still young and my body is not as toned as them! How can! :p So this year is try to exercise more :)




 
7. Control my temper! I know right. This.As.Resolution? Yup. I always have anger issues. Opsie. Not on friends but on other half and family members. I get pissed off and irritated easily. *shy* So this year I vow to control my temper and anger better! Try to count to 10 before i let off my steams! Not easy as this is my character. But am going to try my hardest!


 
8. Be more spontaneous. I know this sounds tedious. But I always always plan things even when a simple yum cha! Always overanalysed things and tend to throw tantrum whenever a small minor glitch. So this year I tell myself it's time to be more spontaneous!
:)





9.  Do something unordinary. Something that I will look back and tell myself, "WOW. I actually did that" :) Who knows what I will do. Of course something legal ok. I wouldn't want to think back when I am in prison. wadaffak. So let's say what 2012 will bring to me :)


 


Excited to see what and how many resolutions I can achieve this year! :)

Destiny...


Do you believe in fate and destiny?
I do
I used to don't really believe in it.
Using it just a guidance
But recently I do.
Maybe too much obstacles and unhappy events been happening lately and  fate determines your destiny.
Right? 

So, I attended a feng shui seminar by the infamous Joey Yap last two Sundays.
And oh boy, I did gained a lot of insight.
Thank you lil Nikki for recommending me to head to Joey Yap's seminar.
Despite having 2 hours of sleep the night before, because of Artistry event.
I did not once felt like I was falling asleep!
I was so alert the whole seminar from 830am until 530pm!
*Back in uni days, even though I had 12 hours of sleep, I still feel tired* :O
*shifty eyes*




By attending this seminar, now I can know roughly know what kind of attitude a person posses. :D 
And I know who to avoid :p
hahaha! :)
Consult me for 50% knowledge! :p 



Above and above...

Someone told me once, 
In order to stay in the game of a relationship, you need to be able to play the game right. 
It's like a basketball game with five players in a team of two fighting for the ball and whoever gets the ball AND score the most WINS.

Basically, it all comes down to mind games (Y) 
_l_ mind games. 
Everyone says very easy to play mind games. All you need to do is be mysterious.
yeah right.
Because in my opinion, mind games = mind fcked 
Seriously, need to play some mind games to stay in the game?
I always thought life is all about:

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
2. Marry a man/woman you love to talk. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have to sleep all you want.
4. When you say, "I love you," mean it.
5. Believe in love a first sight.
6.  In disagreements, fight fairly.
7. Love passionately and deeply. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
8.  Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
9. Smile when picking up the phone. Caller will hear it in your voice.
10. No games in relationship.

  1. Source: Tumblr




The Secret of Happiness



How true is it?

Happiness...



Inspirations: mustardqueen

2011 Resolutions

Finally free to update!

2011 resolutions which I'm going to list it in 9 must resolve this year! :)
*9 is always my lucky number* :)

#01: Be more active. in whatever la. I'm feeling very anti-social lately. *must be the confidence level sudden plunging downhill*! sooo, must start heading out and mending all friendships already! :) And I'm spending more time with the parents because they are getting older! :( I do not want any *touch wood* incidents :(





#02: Don’t give up chasing dream. I really want to achieve my that dream since I was... high school *i think* I really hope I can achieve that perhaps mid year onwards! :) That dream is nothing big for a lot of people, but it's one of my must-do list since ages ago. :)




#03: Live a healthier lifestyle. Do more sports! my gym routine is..... quite dead (.___.) I have only been like a few times. Need gym motivation! Gym partner? Anyone? :)  or maybe i need to do more INDOOR sports! it helps righttttt? 



#04: Save money. Living independent without trying to ask excess money from daddy! Trying to save a new camera because I sort of spoil my last Canon camera in Singapore! ughh! I mean, yess i can ask daddy to buy me a new one i supposed. But I prefer not to! :) Trying to save to get myself a new one. :) No more leaching on daddy every time I want something! :)




#05: Lost weight. This.one.epic.failed. Ate less first two days. Then go back to telling myself,"if you can't get the living pleasure from food, what else can u get it from.Because I'm not some rich and famous people"  I need to keep trying. Need to lose back from now's weight to ....... *not telling* 

#06: Travelling. Really want to travel more to open up my eyes and soak the local culture. Be it Japan, US, UK, Korea. Okkkk. Perhaps I should start small and head to BKK first. *i can't believe I never been to BKK before* :/ because every time I want to head there, there will be bombing news, burning building, raid etc etc :/ So, my mummy always say NO to BKK :(

#07: Cut down on caffeine. I been drinking a lot of coffee and milk tea! all these are hazards to health, not to mention hazard for the waist line too :/ Sooo, need to cut down on it to only ONE cup per day! And I loveeeee coffee and milk tea! 


#08: Learn how to bake more! I kinda like baking/making desserts instead of main meals. *that must explained why I gained weight so easily* :/ lol. But yessss, i will learn to bake more choices! :D Who's up to be my guinea pig? :D

#09: Take up a coursePerhaps a nail art/makeup course! I wanna be the one doing for myself instead of splurging it everytime there's an occasion. Maybe it's time to learn so I can apply it. And also maybe have an extra income out of it *emergency ok in case touch wood out of jobs* lol


Hopefully by end of the year I will be crossing out all of these resolutions! :)
Till then, 2011 is here! :)

Have an awesome year ahead :)

P/s: according to tarot card reading/temple/feng shui masters, this year will be quite a bad year for Rabbit despite we are in the year of Rabbit. So be alert and be aware of surroundings alright people! :)








Best Line Ever!



"Real men fight on their knees"

And it's 100% true.
So, ladies let a man fight for you and not a boy!
Because men fight for you with 100% efforts :)

Inspirations from DawnYang


What is?






Officially missing you

Tamia

I wurve this song.. it has such meaningful lyrics...

I'm bored! Im supposed to find journals on money and capital.. But being kathryn, i'm too lazy to do it.And i was a super lazy bum and stil am now =P Wat i do when im lazy? Blog-hopping ;) I was reading an entry on Mich's blog, and i saw an interesting entry... So im gona do it myself ;) *jason Lim, brace yourself& open ur eyes wide* =Pp

140 Things You Don't Know and Should Know About Moi :)
1). Im born on 18 February 1987 & im proud to be a baby feb. Baby feb = Baby FaB :)
2). Im Aquarius
3). I'm short :( im only 160cm :(
4). I wurve jogging.
5). Love me? then love my besties as well ;)
6). I eat yoghurt/bread for breakfast =P
7). I only eat breakfast & lunch or breakfast&dinner. LoLz
8). Music is my life.No music no nothing =p
9). I love vegetable ;) i cant survive without vegatable in my meals
10). I'm a drama queen =P
11). I laugh when i hear KeL's and Nette's laughing =P
12). I'm sensitive
13). I cam-whore kao kao ;)
14). I love shoes! bags! clothes!
15). Eyeliner is my thang !
16). I survive with my concealer.
17). People said i got great smile =P *grins*
18). I love strawberry foods; cake, ice-cream, yoghurt, fruits
19). Im health conscious
20). I love all my heels collection; pointy, stilletos, wedges, flats, pumps etc etc
21). I'm a pink freak; pink pencil case, pink file, pink h/p ornament, pink tops, pink lingerie =Pp
22). I'm always laughing =P
23). My mood changes easily =P I can be sad for a min and be happy for the nxt min. LolZ
24). I wurve beaches; good things happen on beaches. Right WeE?=P
25). I hate business and studyinG.
26). I spend money like fcuk =Pp *of cos, there's Jason Lim & WenZ who spend more than me =p
27). Im easily influenced
28). I used the word wtf & pa pe alot =P
29). I wurve to dance :)
30). My all time favs drinks are Pina Colada, Sex on The beach and Malibu
31). I dye my hair a lot of times until WenZ said my hair is dying -_- But i never had blonde color cos i think it's dam jeng..
32). I'm a sucker for sappy and romantic movies.
33). I shed tears easily.,
34). I hates people that don't have their own stands; they follow what other ppl wear. Fcuking
annoying.
35). I gets annoyed by those that are too over confident by themselves. *yes, having confidence is
good but not when they over do it -_- *
36). Don't approach me if you think you are too good for me and my friends
37). I'm easily amused =P
38). I gets bully easily especially by Wee and his frens.Namely, Sherman, Ben and Jason =Pp
39). I love to collect perfumes :)
40). I hate Paris Hilton. I cant stand her songs. Dam fcuking annoying la.Rite Jason?
41). I love to read books.Yea, im a nerd. Sue me =P
42). I think too much at times ;)
43). I hate to be in a dark room..
44). I love to partyyyy.. bring on the party babyyyy...
45). I love my babes especially Kel, Vonnie, Sherve, WenZ, Elaine, YinZ
46). I lurve my guys; WeE the Buffalo ;) , Ren, Jason Lee, mua bro and of cos Jason Lim Jo-Weng
47). I'm shy *blush *
48). I enjoy travelling..
49). I love to cook..
50). I used to take ballet lesson when i was a kid. *go ahead, start laughing* -_- eh, i was dam
cute k with my tutus =P
51). Hip-Hop is something that I dont need to learn ;)
52). Im uber sociable.. at times =Pp
53). I gets piss easily..
54). My status? i don't think i need to say it.Firstly, if im single, i dont want to promote myself
in my blog.Secondly, why wana say it here. I sound so desperate if i said it here =P Rite Jason Lim? u un me anot ? ;)
55). I fall for the wrong kind of guys all the times -_-
56). I hate cheaters, liars and two-faced.
57). Two-faced ppl are the worst type.. To them: pls fcuk off
58). I thank the God that im not the only child. I wurve my older brother.My sezy brother =P
59). I have stage frights ...
60). I'm anemia.. =P
61). I love to eat Vietnam and Thai Food. The spicier the better..
62). Monash is killing me -_-
63). I love to bug ppl but failed to do so and end up letting ppl bug me back -_-"""
64). I'm a mixture of Hakka, Hokkien and canto.. LoLz.. and im so dam proud of it..
65). I adore puppies.. not dogs..
66). Im superstitious..
67). I dam kao like to blog =P
68). I used to be a clubber.. Ask WenZ =P
69). I hate smokers but what to do; im surrounded by smokers every day. YEs, im talking about you, Wee ! =P
69). I love to eat if im not so chubby :(
70). People that thinks that they know everything is way beyond my league.
71). I trust people too easily. Like what i did not long ago and i realized what a bitch she/he is
72). A word of advice from me: Don't go around saying stuff before you think about it
73). I love to pamper myself.
74). I took extrra time to make myself look nice ;)
75). I'm a big baby =P
76). I'm not brand conscious...
77). I splurge when im feeling moody or piss..
78). I like going to proms because that's when i get to dress up & cam-whore with my frens. Who needs a date? i got my bunch of frens to cam-whore with ;)
79). I love changing my looks..
78). I hate wanana-bes'
79). I like to drink.. yesss.. alcohol..
80). I like to go out but if going out means troubling my frens to pick me up, i would rather stay
at home.
81). I learn how to hear secrets without ppl knowing =P *thanx to Wenz * hehe
82). I love my Bandar Utama area...
83). Gossips? what are they? ;)
84). I don't care what other people think of me because i know who are my true frens
85). I like going for walks. aaa... fresh air :))
86). I wurve big squishy hugs and kisses
87). I'm a big Guess fan; i have guess walletss, bagss, topss, jeansss ;)
88). I'm a shopaholic..
89). I hate hot weather.. i love cold weather..
90). I wana go somewhere far far away with ....
91). I hate people who thinks that they are so dam fcuking innocent but they are actually not..
Cut the innocent act pls.
93). I like to sit in Jason's Lim, KeL's and Wee's car =P *hint* lolZ. jk jk
94). I hate trance... y wana like trance if cant shuffle? dun tell me u wana bop ur head to the music -_-
95). I love pineapple, cheese and chocolates.
96). I believe everyone mades mistakes. Who doesnt? but i also believe that you got to admit ur mistakes..
97). I'm fickle minded ..
98). I'm not a spoilt brat =P
99). I loveeeeeee suprises... Sweet suprises ... not the bitter ones =P *hint* *hint*
100). I wana work in a club ;)
101). I gets sick easily..
102). I'm a Tv Freak..
103). I study with emo musics =P
104). I'm sick of Zouk.. Maison is the next best thang ;)
105). I love sweets ;) cos im sweet? wtf =P
106). I have millions of soft toys in my room.. hugable soft toys
107). I'm known as a pig/piggie to someone =P *winkz*
108). I'm into bling blings at one moment..
109). But now? I'm into classic accesory babyyy ;) Bring on the classic and vintage stuff baby ;)
110). I lurve Ice-Blended Chocolate frm Coffee Bean, Mango Twisted From San Fransicso Coffee.. yum yum...
111). I love to travel by airplane..
112). I'm scared of the dark and insects..
113). I have a wish of becoming a model =PpP *model is much more challenging than any other job; like VJ or stripper* jason, u un mua? ;)
114). I'm proud to be a Dj-ian eventho most ppl said DJ girls are bimbo -_-
115). I'm proud to be myself..
116). I love to change my hairstlyes ....
117). I wurvee Buffalo .. wtf =Pp
118). y lar wana write so much.. im too freaking lazy to think and write dy... wana know more...? well, either u find out from me or either tat u r not close to me.. So buzz off =P

This special entry is made especially for Jason Lim, KeL, Vonnie and Wee. So other people ignore it ya...
Toodles....

Im bored... and while i was surfing the net.. i saw an ad on' "wana know more bout ur horoscope? click" so i click on it and here it's the profile on my horoscope, which is Aquarius.

Aquarius is water carrier.
Aquarian Traits:
Friendly and humanitarian
Honest and loyal
Original and inventive
Independent and intellectual

On the Dark Side:
Intractable and contrary
Perverse and unpredictable
Unemotional and detached


LIKES
Fighting for Causes
Dreaming and Planning for the Future
Thinking of the Past
Good Companions
Having Fun
DISLIKESFull of Air Promises
Excessive Loneliness
The Ordinary
Imitations
Idealistic

The symbol associated with your sign is the water bearer, it is symbolic of the Gods nourishing the earth with life giving energies. One of the first to be called the water bearer was the Greek God Zeus in mythology.

The color of choice for Aquarius is TURQUOISE ..

toodles........ :)

“The feeling we get that someone is better than us is merely an illusion. It is an effective illusion, but an illusion nonetheless. When we really want someone, this illusion must exist or else we wouldn’t want them that badly. The solution to being intimidated is not to try to imagine them as more human, but simply to accept the fact and make up our mind to act IN SPITE OF our being intimidated.”

Lesson for the day: Never make promises.
I'm not talking about little ones like promising your kid sister you'll take her to see Barney on Ice or promising your mom you'll mow the lawn.
I'm talking about those other promises.
The ones you make in the heat of the moment.
The ones you make under delusions of love.
The ones some people think of as written in blood.

Empty promises are your basic nightmare....
Why bother making promises when you know you not keeping it ?

I read this article about trusting someone........
Why isit hard to trust someone...
And it get me thinking about the word Trust.
People use it all the time, but what does it mean exactly?
I looked up the meaning in the dictionary ..

Trust (v): To place confidence in, to depend on

Pretty standard.And it pretty well descrobed what i was having trouble with.
But then i noticed something else.
The word Trust came between the words Truth and Truss
I read the definition of Truss and saw that it meant a large iron bracket used for support.
That got me thinking again.
In order for me to place confidence in someone, i need to have their support and know the truth.
But once you open your heart and trust someone, your trust and confidence will end up so low..
Once, my friend asked me,
"would you rather choose trust or instinct"?
I answer her, "i duno.. but i guess instinct..

But instinct might be wrong as well aite?
I duno wheyyy..........
My cousin bf asked me just now whether gals make decision based on trust or instinct..
I said instinct..
Prove me wrong ppl..
nitey...

“Sometimes you might wonder how it is possible to fulfill requirements to be both tough and tender, strong yet vulnerable, in order to win what you want. It seems so easy to overdo one or the other. But a wise man once said, 'I may not always walk the straight and narrow, but I cross it as often as I can.’ Just do the best you can. As long as you don’t stay on one side all the time, you’ll do well enough.”

When someone hold your hand, you feel warmth and hope in your hand...
When someone tell you it's gona be alrite, you feel safe and secure...
When someone stays beside you when you need the person to, you feel that your life is gona be alrite after all...

But....

If those words were not spoken to you...
If those are just what you hope a person will say to you...
All your hopes, dreams are crush..
And you are bought back to reality...
When reality strike, you will know...
And you cant lost what you never have in the first place....
So there....
How can a person mourn something that was never hers/his in the first place........

Ritee?
Or so a person can mourn about it?

It's complicated..
You spend your whole life trying to figure out that thing..
And spend the other half trying to make it right..
But....
It's not your call........

And I realized that what's the use of trying to figure it out...?
What's the use of even trying to get so work up about it ?
When you got other things to care about.......

You cant be in your dreams forever...
You will have to wake up one day...
And face the world..
Face the reality...
Face the truth.......

Truth can hurt a person but wouldnt you rather know the truth ?
Than not knwoing at all...

Failing is part of life........
You failed to learn your lessons.....
So once you failed, it doesnt mean you are useless,
IT just meant that it's time for you to learn something new.
Something that's gona be useful to you in future.......

So be brave when you fail....
Be brave when the world is going against you..
Because you know no matter what, you have yourself...
You have you..

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